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Hey! Cheer up, man. Don't let this guy get you down and thinking that love isn't out there, because it is. If you feel he's not the guy for you or he makes you unhappy, then you don't have to keep him around. If you need to talk I'm practically always on. You seem like a mighty cool guy so don't feel so depressed.

I'm sorry....*hugs*. Even people who give advice need advice sometimes. Long distance relationships are always hard and you really shouldn't lose trust in people just because of him. It's something both people have to work at and obviously he doesn't seem motivated to work at it. Maybe you should talk to him about it and come to a conclusion. Possibly by talking about it you'll realize what he does want and if he can't come out and tell you what he's feeling then he really isn't worth it. If you feel like he is dragging you along, then you should do something before it gets worse. It's easier said than done, especially since I'm not the one involved, but you should do what you think is right and don't let it bog you down.

Don't worry. There is such a thing as true love heart out there. But because it's true it is always harder to find, but everyone eventually finds it one day one way or another.

I think it is hard - even if you both love each other, to maintain a long distance relationship. When I go off to university, I am going to make it very clear to my boyfriend that we should stop dating. It sucks, yes, but I just don't think a long distance relationship is really worth it. We'll still be friends though. Cheer up!

Ash. <3

Be the mature one and end it, obviously it's really stressing you out. Tell him exactly what you put in your update, and if he doesn't understand then he's not worth your time.

And after that, come make love with me. =D

Also, my two cents.. Long distance relationships can only go so far, and the line stops right where the "true" love begins. Theres only so much you can love someone you've never even embraced, and without the physical attention a relationship really can't be supported properly. But, that's just how I've came understand it.