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Animalfreakie911
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Dear Midnight Mourner: Fights
Dear Midnight Mourner,
My parents have large fights sometimes about the smallest issue. I know that my mom tells me that I shouldn't bicker about small things with other people, but that's usually what triggers my parents. Why do you think that small things cause many people to blow up and make a huge fuss about it?
- Salior Fu-Chan

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Dear Sailor Fu-chan,
I know how you feel. My parents do it two. I can only answer your question out of my own knowledge. Remember, I'm only 14 lol.

The reason people fight over little things may be because a lot of wrongs were done, but neither of the participants of the fight, said anything or reacted. They may finally react to a small thing because they can't take it anymore.
Also, the more stress, the more easy it is to get mad at something that may not bother you so much when you're not stressed.

If you want to, you could always tell your mom how you feel about the big fights your parents get into over small things.


Life's hard and Memories hurt, but sometimes you gotta let things go, you know? But sometimes, you have to face the past to let it go...[/color:ecde9333ee]




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Yaaarly
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comment Commented on: Tue Jul 22, 2008 @ 02:48am
Dear Midnight Mourner,
None of the people who live where i do seem to care what's wrong with me or what's even going on. Elicia is my best friend here, but we don't contact each other very much. She cares for me so much but we don't talk much so it would be hard to let her know if something iz wrong. And the persistant wannabe only tells me he likes me and starts the topic of his 'love' for me and that makes me more upset and stressed. I really don't have a question but it helps to say sumthing...i also need advise i guess...how should i know if they care about me?


No Rain, No Rainbow...Think About It...
comment Commented on: Tue Jul 22, 2008 @ 11:26pm
Dear midnight mourner,
Ik i keep pestering u but i'm breaking...elicia nvr calls or gets on yim anymore. Maybe she hates me now like all the other ppl...i wanna call her but we nvr talk for more than 10 minutes anymore...jermon im scared to be around him anymore becuz of this stupid luv thing im scared he'll bring it up again and then we ill have to stop being friends...idk wat to do wats wrong with me? Brittany emailed me asking wat will i do without her at lunch and at school becuz she waz my only real friend at school...i don't know how much more of this i can take. im trying to be strong but no one cares anymore...i feel like crying...im so hurt and confused. i should have just stayed a loner and not jump into friendships....pretty soon u will hate me too...well im gonna go srry for dumping this on u....


No Rain, No Rainbow...Think About It...

Yaaarly
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