lol I was told to put some love tips on here. Alrighty then. The best thing to make a relationship go is equal effort. If the other gives no effort then it all meaningless. Jokes and nicknames are the best way to get someone to smile, it might make them lonely to just sit there and have no idea what to talk about. Call out of the random and ask them a question and leave them wondering what brought it up. Best to smile around them cause it makes them feel like their efforts didnt go to waste. Ask to do something and be the one to make the final step that the other may be to scared to take. Sometimes they will be in a bad mood and you wont even know it and they come to you for help. They dont want to worry you but at the same time they hope your close enough to notice. Get them a little gift every once in awhile. Like a ring or necklace that says you are theirs and vice versa.
Dating 101: The Basics of Dating
1) The person you are dating deserves respect
2) A good dating partner is upbeat and positive
3) Never force your date to do something he or she doesn´t want to do
4) A date that is planned is often more successful than a date that is thrown together at the last moment
5) If you are dating one person exclusively, be faithful--trust is the foundation of all relationships
6) Ask questions to learn more about the person you are dating
7) Never ever let someone talk you into violating your own principles
cool Be comfortable with yourself. You cannot be good at dating if you don´t believe in yourself.
What Should I Wear?
We know first impressions are important, and we'd like to think they're primarily based on personality, right? Wrong. First impressions are largely about on how we look. So when you're getting ready for that all-important first date, think about what you are going to wear. Dress to impress, but also dress to show your personality. Keep in mind the activities you have planned for evening, and dress accordingly. If you initiated the date, make sure your invitee knows your plans as well so that he or she can dress appropriately.
Dating Tips: Eye Contact
Eye contact is very important when dating, and a critical flirting tip. So many emotions, especially those dealing with interest, are conveyed through the eyes. Too little eye contact can lead your date to think that you're not interested in them, while too much eye contact can seem creepy and make your date feel uncomfortable. You have to maintain eye contact during the date, in order to convey your interest. When looking at your date, always look at their face, unless you are commenting on a specific piece of clothing or jewelry. Remember to gaze gently at your date – staring at them will come across as too intense, and may make them a little uncomfortable.
Feeling Free To Be Yourself
Have you ever wondered if there are some fundamental keys to avoiding a bad dating relationship and ultimately a bad marriage? There are. The first is being able to be yourself while dating. One of the most common red flags in a dating relationship is thinking you have to play a role or act like something or someone you are not. So, if you are in a current relationship, ask yourself, "Can I be myself in this relationship or do I have to mask some of my feelings?" If the answer is yes, this relationship is not for you. If you are starting a relationship, be yourself -- without apology -- from the start. It will save both parties a lot of pain down the road.
Girl Talk Don'ts
You know girls want you to talk to them. But what do girls NOT want you to do during conversation? To start, a guy who talks only about himself and his own interests is an immediate turn-off. Conversation is a two-way street, and a girl likes a guy who asks questions and is interested in her life. At the same time, girls like guys who have the confidence to talk to them; too often guys simply don't 'step up' and enter a conversation with a girl they like. And last but certainly not least, don't talk about other girls or past girlfriends with a girl you've just met. That can send conflicting messages.
A/N Well I wish I could go by these myself but heh im not so good at that stuff. I will still try hard!!
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