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Ok so this is a little bit awkward for me but hey I am going to give it a try. Right now I am nervous and trying to think of how to write my vows. Yeah I said it I am getting married. We have been together for 6 years and it is about time. Now only if it was legal. You see we are both female so its a little tricky. Although we are haveing a pagan wedding on halloween which I think will be totally cool. Its just that it is really hard to change your last name for starters takes 2 months and you have to go in front of a judge. if he does not like the reason you give him he can deny it, which if that happens i will be so mad and upset. I just don't understand why it is illegal what is wrong with me being happy i mean more straight couples get divorced each year and yet it is supposed to be sacred. yeah right like people really feel that why if it is so sacred why is divorce legal. I truly think that once you get married you should never be able to get divorced that would make it sacred and teach people to think things through all the way. We wouldn't have half of the problems we do know if people would truly see what marriage is suppose to be. well that is it for now.