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my "Ex" is trying to ignore me. yesterday his mom and my mom planned an easter dinner together without telling us until the last minute. it was akward for me and him. for me because i was a little upset that he could ignore me in my house and he was uncomfortable because everyone knew that we werent talking and it was his fault. his mom was nice but i felt like kicking him out. i asked him why wasnt he talking to me ( because he cheated on me and thinks i did wrong) he said he was tired and didnt sleep well. ( load of bullshit) i said fine. i made a mistake and asked my mom to be nice and not bother him then in mid senctence i stopped and thought about it nad then said never mind continue. he looked irritated that his mom kept making him do things to help me clean up after dinner. with him looking sour and my mom and his mom stepping out for a second i said that if he didnt want to help me he didnt have to and i said ide rather someone do something nice than to do it and hurt my feelings ( but it really didnt bother me that much) i told him if he didnt want to be here to go home. what surprised me was that he walked out of the kitchen and sat in the living room. my mom came back and i was so upset that i walked straight up to him and said " if you dislike me or even hate me that much then i want you to get out of my house and never come back" i now think that he is an arrogent son of a b***h that thinks everyone owes him something and he gets mad when he doesnt get it. the one thing i didnt call him last nite is gay because i know it would kill him but if this keeps up he will hear it by the end of this week and it will just slip out. i cant keep this up i wish we would move already