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stare Well...I was dating this guy, everything was going fine until we kissed. When we kissed it just didn't feel right...it had no "fire" or "sparks" so I broke up with him because I didn't want to be in a relationship with a guy that i felt nothing for, I didn't want to be the kind of girl whose leads on a guy she doesn't even like on and then break his heart. Well after we broke up my friend text me (this friend is also friends with the guy that I broke up with) and said that this guy wanted another chance so I said okay fine. Well today at lunch when i was sitting with the guy i broke up with (but got back together with) i still didn't feel anything so i broke up with him again.

Why i'm telling you this is because what I did was stupid and made the situtation worse, so my advice to you is if you want to break up with a guy that your friends with but don't want to ruin your friendship is just talk to them about how you feel. If their a good friend they'll listen.

I hope my advice helps anyone who is going through something like this please comment or put requests if you have them.

~Mimi 3nodding