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I went to Kay because I was confused and needed help figuring out my purpose in life. I didn't think I deserved the life I had been given, and it didn't seem fair that I had it when I wasn't doing anything with it.

She instantly freaks out at me and asks if I'm going to commit suicide. I tell her no, that I would never (I consider it cheating) and I just needed some help. She said she was sorry for freaking, but she's lost two friends to suicide already and doesn't need to lose a third.

I can understand that. But she kept being paranoid about it, and finally I just said "You don't get it." She said "No. I don't."

That was three days ago. We haven't spoken since. First off, I'd like to point out that it seriously hurts my feelings that we haven't spoken again. If you really were worried about me, wouldn't you actually text me the next day at the very least and ask how I was doing?

The problem I'm having is that I'm pretty sure she's not talking to me because she's angry at me for "scaring" her like that. Not that I did it on purpose, but I just don't think that it's very fair that I'm being punished for having an existential crisis. I don't doubt that everyone's had one of those at least at one point, and when it's something I've been dwelling on for four months, then I think it's understandable that it was so confusing to me, since I hadn't figured it out by the time it became a real issue.

So why am I being ignored for questioning my reality?