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A guy wrote this in his notebook and it should make you think.

I know way too many really beautiful girls who think they don't look good... It hurts... because it's our fault, guys I mean. We make girls feel like they have to be perfect. You know what I mean, flat stomach, huge boobs, round booty, long legs, big lips, and on top of all that, they have to dress like a whore, and be one as well... nobody can measure up to that... and its not fair... because nobody should have to. The little imperfections are what make people special. If everyone was perfect the world would be so boring, variety is what makes life interesting. So guys, stop making girls have to live up to your, I'm sorry, our... deluded fantasy visions of perfection. Stop acting like boys and start being men... realize that women don't exist to fufill our sexual desires. Stop talking to them solely to get with them, be nice to them because you want to be their friend, not because you want to hook up with them. Say nice things about them not to flatter them in hopes that you'll get some, but because you know they like to hear them. In short... we need to grow up and stop acting like freakin retarded little boys.

Now just hold on a minute! NOT EVERY FRIKKIN GUY FEELS LIKE THAT!

What I like in a girl is HER, not HER BODY. Every girl I've liked hasn't been a girl people whistle at on the street, not the kind everyone stares at. Man I get laughed at for the girls I like. I don't like short skirts, big (you get the picture). I DO NOT FIT THE MALE STERIOTYPE! I DO NOT WANT TO FIT THE MALE STERIO TYPE! I just want to say, not all guys like plastic girls, girls quit being plastic be your self. AND QUIT SAYING ALL GUYS LIKE PLASTIC GIRLS WITH PLASTIC BODY PARTS! Thank for your time.

I wrote the bottom part.